We are not magicians, we are just learning!

Everyone in my life, at least once, faced with the problem of understanding women and men. When trying to communicate something, and all for nothing, all is not seen as necessary. When it is very important to find a compromise, consciously go against themselves, forgetting about the pride, or will remain without their favorite or a loved one. There are many books about family relationships, about how to behave in certain situations. I am an ordinary person, and in my family is not always going smoothly as we would like. I have a book 'Family psychologist ' would read, but when opened, it is written is very tedious, tricky words, and not interested. Yesterday, leafing through a women's magazine and came across a parable, just the same understanding of the family, written concisely and clearly, and do not need to invent!.

TRANSLATOR.

The high contracting parties were seated on both ends of the table, and between them inconspicuous shade perched translator.

all were silent. He first started.

- I love you.

She winced, but she made ​​the sign of the interpreter and said:.

- He says, ' I have the patience, I am ready to listen and try to understand you '.

She chuckled and said bitterly:.

- You always knew how to say nice words, but I have things from you, probably never wait.

The interpreter turned to him and said:.

- She says, ' I love you too. Only love has helped me to endure all this '.

He spoke, and his voice was a meal.

- I do so I can not. Everything I do, you do not like. You're always criticizing.

Translator turned back to her and said:.

- He says: ' I've got sprawling, vulnerable ego. It makes me take all your words as an attack, and I involuntarily start to see your enemy '.

She looked at him - without the hatred. Even with the pity, from which to love - a half step.

- I'll try to remember this, but you have to stop being a kid. It's time to grow up in the thirties!.

The interpreter turned to Him.

They left together, shoulder to shoulder, almost hand in hand. On the threshold he turned and ran up to the interpreter, slapped him on the back and exclaimed:.

- Yes you are, brother, a pro! .

The translator is not answered, he caught sight of her eyes and quietly moved:.

- He said to me: ' I want to learn to understand it myself '.

I wish you all happiness and understanding! . This is our rear, our fortress.